Its rare but it can happen…

I always thought good things never happen to good people. Simply because of what you have been through in your life. You experience the worst and you accept it. Because not matter how innocently you live the life good things simply dont happen. Until few days ago, I thought the same, I accepted it and I moved on. May be not completely moved on because I had my bickering moments. But after many frustrations days I realize that good things happen to good people. If you wait for something and if you believe in something while sticking to your principals you will never regret. But norm of the society might change then again rest of the world can decide whats good for them but I decide what is good for me.

CEO Lying, can also apply to others

Yesterday I was reading New York Times Opinion section and stumble upon an interesting article. If you ask my opinion it doesn’t have to be the CEO. In my experience I have seen that many people use similar vocabulary and after reading this article it made me more sense about those situation and the words that goes along with it. Example, You are working hard to come up with a solution but comment on it saying it is good, but is saying that to make other party happy people will tell, its good. So the question is how are we going to find out if someone truthfully saying its good or trying to just make us feel better? I think there are ways, because before words come out from the mouth they travel through the body while igniting other body part that provide the truthful meaning of that word. So I would try to pay attention to them.

Research having a blur phase

Its about time I pickup my graduate research and get on with it. After my last two papers got reject I decided to take a little time off, but I don’t think taking time of from that is the write thing to do. Yes, I am not in the same state of mind as I was in couple of months ago but I think going back and pickup up my work will help me to avoid thinking about many things that I can’t control.

It’s more than just a Mini

I don’t know who religiously read my blog, and I highly doubt there are any but then again this blog brought life back to my life. So, I am sorry for not being active or writing away my experiences here. This would be the summer that I will never forget in my life, this would be the summer that I would tell to my kids.

Mini was a car I always liked but never thought I would really buy one until I took this avenue in my life. I know its an avenue that I am not alone, and I feel that this avenue has lot to offer such as life, happiness, joy, and peace. Interesting feeling I get from this avenue is that, I feel like I have been traveling on this avenue for very long time, which is a really good feeling.

For some Mini may be a car, but for me its not, no one would know except for…

Protected: May 12th, 2010

Extremely Stressed Out

I don’t get why my life is always awfully stressful. I don’t think my mind ever had a time where it was completely in relax mode. Don’t get me wrong I know how to have a good time, but the stressful cloud always right above my head. My life has never been an easy path, things hardly ever work the way I want them to work. Every single choice I make have to be carefully calculated but the worst case is they still go wrong. I am constantly worried about many things because I have to otherwise they could become worse than it is. So, I am extremely stressed out, but I try to put a happy face and make rest of the world happy as much to ability I have left in me. But I am getting tired of it, sometimes I feel like go back home, and take time off from everything that I am doing and re-evaluate my life. Then again I am not a kid anymore, I cant run away, I guess I will keep doing what I am doing and keep believing in myself, that someday good will find its path towards me.

I just found out, guess what? napping is awesome!!!

I am a very lite sleeper, If I have to sleep later than 8am, I have to foce myself to do so, I bet being a grad student also doesn’t add any help to my sleeping habits. I do workout 3-4 times a week and most of the time its late in the evening towards to the night. I have found out that workout dates I can stay awake till 2-3am. I don’t complain because it helps on my research and other school work.

One of my biggest problem is I can’t sleep during day time. If I get any sleep its absolutely a miracle. But lately I have had couple of naps and It was utterly fantastic, and LOVED it!!!. Today, I slept while monitoring an exam just for 5 min and I wished I was in my bed.

So going forward, I am going to make an attempt to squeeze in a nap during weekend. Because there is no way I can take nap during the week, unless I find a good quiet class room.

Something special about March

I think March is a very special month. Month starts with my birthday so that it self is good enough to be special. But I like to look beyond that. March is the month that brings spring. Spring brings new life. Trees start to wake up from long and hash winter, wild life introduce their new born to this world, snow melts and melted snow finds its path to rivers. Its a month of a new beginning, and even mother nature agrees to it.

So, Why cant we start a new beginning. Why are we so afraid for a new beginning? Why many of us don’t take the next step? What elements hold us from making the decision to a new beginning? I don’t have the answer for it. May be some don’t need a new beginning? I am not sure if I belong to that category!

Beside all the above, March is still special because its the month of Royal-Thomian Cricket encounter, the olderst cricket series after Ashes, Then as a basketball player and a fan you can’t avoid March Madness.

So do you still doubt the specialness of March…?

Protected: Yeah, who needs principals in life…

Go Gophers, Great Big Ten Opener

Atmosphere at the barn (William Arena) was electrifying as always. Gophers got into a great start. It was good to see that both defense and offense was getting click right from the beginning. Hoffarber was red hot from get go. Pen State rallied for a come back in the second half, but Westbrook got really hot at the second half and put an end to Pen State’s come back by hitting some great shots from downtown. As I said, what a great way to start the BIG TEN Opener.